"Max" wrote in message ...
"Fred" wrote in message
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Has there been a financial settlement indicating where assets and
possessions should go?

We were going through mediation to sort things out but she walked out
after
a few sessions, so no agreement was made. She didn't ask for anything
afterwards, I think she was assuming she could ask later and I would give
her what she would ask for. But when she'd refused to contribute to a
debt
from which she also benefited, but which is in my name only, I said that
if
that is her attitude I would stop being reasonable.

If you're going against an order then you're not
very wise. However, typically it will say what ever is in your
possession
at that time will belong to that person.

She had plenty of time (weeks) to take what she wanted, including her
books,
CDs, whatever - which she did. I am not sure what she thinks she forgot
but
if she is not prepared to be fair to me, then I don't see why I should be
fair to her.

Max

So, you have not yet finalised the divorce by the sound of it, as no final
financial settlement has been made. I think you would be very unwise to be
petty about the CDs and books, as it could rebound on you. Just let her have
what she regards as her stuff.